If you are thinking of attending the Traditional Latin Mass for the first time, welcome. It is entirely normal to feel a little unsure of what to expect. This gentle guide is meant to set you at ease — you belong here, and you will be glad you came.

You don't need to do anything “perfectly”

The single most important thing to know is this: it is perfectly fine simply to come and pray. You do not need to follow every word, know when to stand or kneel, or understand the Latin. Watch the sacred actions at the altar, listen, and enter into a spirit of quiet devotion. The faithful around you will be glad you are there, and many will happily help if you have a question.

What to bring

  • A hand missal (optional). A missal places the Latin and English side by side so you can follow the prayers. Most locations have missals you may borrow at the entrance — just ask. See How to Follow the Mass with a Hand Missal.
  • An unhurried heart. Arrive a few minutes early if you can, find a seat, and let yourself settle into the quiet before Mass begins.

What to wear

People often dress somewhat more formally at the traditional Mass, out of reverence for the Holy Sacrifice, though modest, respectful attire is always welcome and sufficient. Many women choose to wear a chapel veil or head covering — a gentle and lovely custom — but this is entirely optional and not required. Come as you are able; the Lord looks upon the heart. (See Chapel Veils: A Gentle Tradition.)

A few things you'll notice

The priest will face the altar with the people, rather than across from them — together turned toward the Lord. Much of the Mass, especially the most sacred moments, is prayed in silence; this is not emptiness but a deep, prayerful stillness. You will hear Latin and, often, Gregorian chant. At Holy Communion, the faithful kneel and receive Our Lord on the tongue. If you are not receiving, you may remain quietly in prayer.

Above all, pray

The Mass is not a performance to be evaluated or a code to be cracked; it is the worship of God and the renewal of Calvary’s gift. Let the beauty and reverence draw you in. Speak to Our Lord simply, in your own words, as a friend. Whatever you do not yet understand will come in time.

When you are ready, you will find Mass times and locations throughout our region on our Latin Mass Times page. And if we can answer any question at all, please do not hesitate to reach out to us. We would be honored to welcome you.